Saturday, August 21, 2010

Pregnancy week 16

Pregnancy Highlights:
How Far Along: 16 weeks
Total Weight Gain/Loss: hmm...not really sure but last appointment I had gained 8 lbs
Maternity Clothes: not yet really
Best Moment this week: When Dylan was giving my belly raspberries
Gender: We are not finding out...let's hope I can hold out
Movement: Thought I felt something earlier in the week, but I think it's too soon
Food Craving: Cherrie Icees as usual...this week biscuits
What I miss: not being so round, how did this happen so soon
Sleep: Sleeping pretty good.
What I am looking forward to: the first major ultrasound
Belly Button: it's already starting to get flat...my prediction it will be out by 25 weeks

Friday, August 20, 2010

Summer Fun

Summer is coming to a close and soon little man will be starting pre-school. I am sure I will miss him, but I really look forward to actually getting stuff done. I feel so bad about doing housework when we could be having fun. Thankfully, Damien has tolerated a not as clean as usual house and backed up laundry, but come September 1st, the maid in me is coming out. Big plans, big, huge!
This summer we've had fun playing, going to mom events, going to the pool and attending birthday parties. One thing I look forward to, is playing outside more, I am over this 100 degree heat wave we've been having for a month now. ugh - Here we come play ground.

Wednesday, August 18, 2010

Major Milestones

I have really realized in the past few weeks, just how big Dylan is getting. Not only is he independent, but he's intelligent. I know all parents say that, but I truly believe it. While I was in Africa, my mom and Damien worked with Dylan hard core on his potty training. Granted, he had been peeing in the potty since about March or so, but it was not consistent by any means. Since we are always on the go, I just hadn't taken the time to focus on it. Thankfully, my parents found the right motivation, MONEY. Dylan loves getting money, even when it's two monies. They even got him a new piggy bank, and he calls it porkchop. Now we are wearing big boy undies all the time, with the exception of nap, bed time and church, but even then he's usually dry. If he wakes up in the middle of nap or night time, he will yell, I need to go pee pee. Hopefully he will learn to go on his own.
This is where the other milestone comes in. Since he was potty trained, we figured we should convert his crib until we get his big boy furniture for his new room. He loves it. We haven't had any real issues with him staying in bed, so that's been pleasant.
Where is the time going? And to think, we will have another one around the house come February!


Sunday, August 8, 2010

Weekend Fun

I know it's just Sunday, but we have had so much fun this weekend. Our weekend started with a cook out at a friend's house, They had rented a water slide and invited a few families over to share in the fun. They are always so sweet to invite us. Thanks B family! The last time we were invited over to play on the slide, Dylan wanted nothing to do with it. On Friday night, it was a different story, he had so much fun. It was a nice, relaxing evening eating and talking with friends.


Saturday was Damien's company picnic. I cannot tell you how exciting this was. Since he has worked remotely most of his career, to actually work in an office, around others, is quite a change. Events like these are refreshing. Camp Widjiwagan was the site for the picnic. We have never heard of this place. It was off Percy Priest lake in Antioch and it was packed with fun stuff to do. Well fun stuff for non pregnant people, I always seem to miss out on these things. We planned to stay from 10:00 to 2:00 but we got there at 10:30 and stayed until 4:00, yep we ended up closing it down. Dylan was having so much fun, we thought nap schmap. Not to mention all the fun things, lunch was catered by Shane's Rib Shack...yum!

Bounce House
Pool Time
Face Painting

Water Play area
Damien doing the water slide. He didn't think I should do it, hmph


Boat ride
Enjoying Ice Cream (m&m sandwich cookie. I had a snickers brownie sandwich, heaven)
Balloon artist (after waiting 45 minutes, I gave up) His work was awesome.
Our Family's caricature drawing

Friday, August 6, 2010

Favorite Foto Friday

Just a few pics from my trip that didn't make it into a blog

Chimwemwe (Joy) and me
James and me
Moses showing us the stuff he learned at permaculture school
The "no chip left behind" plan
Catherine and me
Mary and me
Baby Vanessa, 1 month old

The Last Week


I am going to cheat a bit and condense the last week into one blog. I know, I know that’s not right, but as I sit at Dulles Airport with my 9 hour delay, I realize I didn’t blog the last week and decided I better do it before I forget everything.


Monday was really a hard day for Lusungu and I as we were trying to make sure that everything on the spreadsheets matched her folders. This wasn’t just a Monday task but a Tuesday and Wednesday task as well. Especially since I have a MAC and I had to ensure that the files I left her with, she could access through a PC. Finally, I figured it out, whew.


On Monday, we had Awana and it was really fun especially since we brought some bandanas for the kids to color. They were left over from our VBS so they were truly cowboy bandanas, but the kids loved them. This kept them entertained for 40 minutes and some still didn’t finish coloring them.



On Tuesday, we had the guardian meeting and Ken did a bible devotional with the women and then we said our good byes. Oh, I should mention there was some serious singing and praising this day. At first, it was pretty tame, but then, Moses got fired up and was telling the women that they needed to put some more enthusiasm in it. Of course, I am paraphrasing since I don’t speak chchewa but from his body language and what happened afterwards, this is what I gathered. I have never seen Moses thrown down in this way. He was really getting into it in a very James Brown like manor. I have to say being amongst the women and the men singing in chchewa has got to be one of my favorite sounds in the world. You forget sometimes that you don’t speak the language as you find yourself supplementing your own words in their praise songs. Saying our good byes were hard, some of the women that I met the past two weeks really touched my heart, like Meiness who was my favorite guardian. With us, I didn’t really need a translator even though she didn’t speak English, she understood it very well. Then there was Denisa whom I got to interview on Wednesday for a special biography. She lost her husband the Thursday we got there and her story is a very sad one.....I will post what I wrote later (even though it’s just a draft and by no means to I claim to be a writer). It was sweet, on Wednesday afternoon, I walked through the village and she was sitting on her porch. She pointed to her pan, then her mouth and then to me, asking me if I wanted to join her for lunch. Hi replied no thank you (in chchewa) as I was on my way to Awana.


Wednesday had a different vibe than last year’s last day. Really the whole trip did. The differences between this year and last year were obvious but not in a bad way, just a different.


Apparently a lot of kids in the village got wind of the bandanas and school bags, pencil pouches and bookmarks that we made at VBS and handed out to the kids at school that day....as a lot of kids showed up for Awana. Talk about chaotic, this was the most chaotic day that you can imagine. The kids were being noisy, pushing each other and then when we went to hand out the cross necklaces for the kids to make and we explained that we only brought enough for Awana and that we would make sure that the younger kids would get the necklaces first. This did not bode well with the older kids that had been crazy the entire time leading up to the craft time. There were a few times that I had to yell “halleiugha” to get their attention to which they reply “Amen” and quiet down. Well, of course all the kids didn’t get a necklace so we pulled out some of the leftover bandanas from Monday and the kids were pushing for these not to mention the kids who had finished their necklaces and now were crowding for a bandana. It got too out of hand, so we ended up putting the bandanas up since the kids were acting very crazy. By the end of the day, we probably could have all used a cocktail. We hated leaving on such a bad note, but we made sure to love on the kids before officially saying good-bye. Unfortunatley, I never saw Sara and Mikey, although I didn’t have much hope in seeing them since they are not a part of Adziwa or Awana. They just happened to come last year when they found out the azungus were in town. Although I was sad, I was happy to bond with a few girls like, Mary, Salome, Salome and Liz.


I have a feeling this will be my last trip to Malawi for a long time. At the end of this trip, I felt a sense of completion unlike last year. I am so thrilled to see how far Adziwa has come. The school last year only consisted of one block with 2 classes, but no one was using the school yet. This year, they were using the block, 2 classes met in the morning and 2 in the afternoon. In addition, they were in the process of building a school administration/library block and beginning to build 3 more school blocks. Within the next year, they will have standards 1 thru 8. The maize mill that is right when you pull into Adziwa Gardens is almost ready to start production. This will produce income for the community. I could definetly see the difference, yet still wonder how God determines who is born to whom. I can’t help but think that. I try to imagine myself being born into that culture and what my life would be like...and it’s really hard to fathom. I think about the people in the village and how they make the most out of their simple lives and how happy they seem. I wonder if I would take it that well too. I know that God has His hand on Africa and that he cares for them. This is evident.

Hats Off

On Sunday, we made a special trip to a village in Mchinchi. Both Ken and Pete were schedule to preach at a church in the village. Pete and Lori were dropped off at one church, while Ken, Hillary, Morgan, Betsy and I went to a different church. The church we were at was a small, outdoor service with only about 30 people. Ken spoke to the members about exchanging a lie for the truth and used the woman who poured perfume on Jesus’ feet as the example. After service was over, we headed over to the church Pete was to preach at as he hadn’t even made it to to the stage yet. This church was not like anything you would expect in a village. They had a sound system and musical instruments including a set of drums. There were about 5 churches in attendance that day. Typically these churches get together the first of each month for a special service but since the Azungus were in town, they moved it up a week. The church literally takes the bible at it’s word and brings their first fruits to this meeting. There were plenty bags of maize as well as other things to offer the church. It was really neat to see the enthusiasm in this church.


After service, we were to attend a pastor’s graduation. One of T.K.’s roles with African Leadership is to do a pastor training with people in the village. The class lasts about 2 years then they are able to graduate. For this graduation, we traveled very close to the border of Zambia. We drove to the border got out and snapped some pictures. This after about 3 men rushed our car. We weren’t sure what was going on, but apparently these men were money changers wanting us to exchange our money with them.


Zambia border


We were to be at the graduation at 1 o’clock and since it was approaching 2 o’clock, we thought we better scoot even though T.K. informed us that we were still on time. When we pulled up the next village there was plenty of singing and dancing to be seen and heard. You can tell that this was a joyful day for this village.

Two years ago, 12 men ventured on this journey to become pastors for their village and due to various reason, some dropped out, but 6 men were graduating. T.K. joked how special it was that even the azungus were making it to their graduation. That not everyone gets that honor and you can tell, they truly felt honored that we were there. Some even asking for us to be in their family pictures at the end of the graduation ceremony. Their wives were beaming with smiles because they were so happy.


By the end of the day, after all the travel, we were exhausted, but that didn’t stop us from stopping by at Cafe Delight to grab some pizzas for dinner. I think we all turned in early that night.